For those girls who say "ALL MEN ARE THE SAME"

Have you met all the guys in the world? No You Haven't.

There are guys out there, who care about you, are madly in love with you, will treat you right, but you're too pushing them into FRIEND ZONE. And when that one guy screws you over, you either blame love, or either you start believing that all guys are jerks. They're not.

Love doesn't walk away, people do. And so what if one jerk broke your heart, I PROMISE you that not every single guy will. Open your eyes,and realize that there are guys who want you but don't go after you before you're too busy chasing the bad boys. Or you expect to fall in love that way they do in movies, where it's love at first sight, or where the guy throws rose petals every where his girlfriend steps. That's not reality. He can't think about you 24/7, he can't open every door for you, hold your bag all the time, text you good night and good morning every day, he's not going to be perfect. And if you expect him to be perfect, then it's you who is not ready to be in a relationship.

So before you go on and say,"all guys are the same" just remember, that many people in the future will break your heart too but one day you'll find the guy who was worth all those heartbreaks. The guy who will treat you right, he might not throw rose petals everywhere you step, but he'll hold your hand and will be by your side through the hardest times.. 

Brave enough to say Good Bye...

"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo 

One of the biggest nuggets of wisdom that we have to learn to live a productive life is that saying goodbye is sometimes what we need so that we can say hello to opportunities in life that we otherwise would have missed. Sometimes we have to let go of people that are in our lives, and don't really make us happy. 

Sometimes we have to say goodbye to jobs that we know are obstructing us from seeing the life we really want to live become a reality. Sometimes we have to pick better foods that give us better nutrition and health so that we can support ourselves better than the traditional foods we eat on a daily basis. It takes being brave and embracing change in your, to bring the growth and success that you desire from the bottom of your heart. Be brave in your pursuits,all of them, even the exits...