Long distance relationships....

People say:- You’ve never even met them.- They could be cheating on you right now.- How can you love someone that you only see on tokbox or tinychat.- You’re not really sleeping with them, you’re sleeping on the phone with them.- “You’ll find someone better in your distance.”Well I think it’s cute if people can maintain a distant relationship without giving up because people say, “they’re cheating on you.” Thats how you know it’s a real relationship, especially because theres so much trust. To be honest, you don’t even have to see someone to love someone. If someone can make you laugh and feel butterflies through a camera, then it’s real love because that means that even through camera, phone, or sms, they could still love each other through all of that. ♥ :]

Closure...

This is for those who keep running back to the same person when you know you deserve better.When is it a necessity to depend on someone else for happiness? Why do you need the feel of a significant other to remind you that you’re loved? You are. Realize the good people that are in your life.

You keep complaining that he isn’t treating you right but you keep running back to him. You know you’re not happy when you’re crying constantly, arguing about how he is seeing someone else or just doesn’t want to be with you but you’re just taking it. There’s a certain quality about him that you just keep grasping on too. Along with that grasp is also a string of hope that he will change after all the complaining. But really is that one characteristic worth grasping on to compared to all those flaws? You are used to that certain “hurt” but you let the hurt continue because you’re not used to the idea of being “single”, “free”, “independent”. You’re afraid because your whole life, you’ve always been dependent. In reality we are settling for less when we know we deserve better.

We have to face the demons of being ‘alone’ in the face because it helps us grow. How can we love someone else, when we can’t even love ourselves? We have to sacrifice that intimacy/passionate part of our lives. In time someone will walk in your direction unexpectedly. It’ll hit you out of no where. But you can’t have just anyone walk into your life, you need someone that can treat you like the Queen that you are, because you deserve it. They’ll realize the mistake they made letting you go later in the future when YOU’RE finally happy with someone who loves you.

So, stop settling for less. You’re worth more then that.

Isn't that LIFE......????

Life changes every minute of every day. You lose friends. You gain friends. You realize yourfriend wasn’t ever really your friend, and that person you used to hate can make a reallygood friend. You look for love. You find love.You lose love. You realize all long that you’ve been loved. You laugh. You cry. You laugh so hard that you cry. You do this, you do that. You really wish you hadn’t done ...that. Youthen learn from that and are glad that you did. You have your ups. You have your downs. You see good movies. You see bad movies.You wonder if your life is just one big movie. You look at others and wish you were them. You then realize who they are and are gladthat you’re you. You love life. You hate life. In the end you just find yourself happy to be living life, no matter what’s thrown at you.....:)

Ponder on...evolve...

As human beings, we often chase hypothetical, static states of perfection. We do so when we are searching for the perfect house, job, friend, or lover. The problem, of course, is that perfection doesn’t exist in a static state. Because life is a continual journey, constantly evolving and changing. What is here today is not exactly the same tomorrow – that perfect house, job, friend, or lover will eventually fade to a state of imperfection. But with a little patience and an open mind, over time, that imperfect house evolves into a comfortable home. That imperfect job evolves into a rewarding career. That imperfect friend evolves into a steady shoulder to lean on. And that imperfect lover evolves into a reliable lifelong companion.

Theres always something or the other to regret..but.....

We all have things in our past we would rather not think about. Things we have experienced, mistakes we have made, people we have hurt.

Sometimes we regret the things we did do, and sometimes we regret the things we didn't do.

There are many wounds in life that don't quite heal, they always seem to be there just below the surface waiting for the right moment to remind us of their presence.

Regret, shame, and guilt, all stem from past experiences.

We carry those negative emotions around with us for months, and even years, dragging those negative feelings around like a rotting skeleton. Sometimes they are there for a reason, a part of our conscience, and a way of learning from past mistakes but they were never meant to be a permanent state of mind.

We all have circumstances in our lives that we wish we could go back and change, no doubt about it. Though most of us would dearly love to be perfect, imperfection is part of the human condition. We are going to make mistakes, sometimes BIG ones. Bad things are sometimes going to happen. We are always going to find things to regret.

Making peace with your past is making peace with yourself...

Mistakes...

If you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You're doing things you've never done before, and more importantly, you're doing something. So that's my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make new mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody's ever made before. Don't freeze, don't stop, don't worry that it isn't good enough, or it isn't perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life. Whatever it is you're scared of doing, do it.

Cliche....

Most of the couples put their efforts in being different....In more precision ...they try to do away with cliche 's.But give it a thought and see if you agree...

Thousands words speech doesn't express the love as much as a simple but deeply felt 'I love you' does

Nothing redefines the relationship more than the first kiss

Try a hand at lilies..orchids and what not, still nothing says 'I love you' more than a single long stemmed rose..

Still the best idea for a date is cuddling during a movie...sharing popcorn, followed by a candle light dinner and then walking back under the star studded sky..

No other kind of wedding matches the thrill of a running away one..

When you start listening to the words unsaid is still the best way to solve the'i love you or i love you not' mystery..

Nothing is more romantic than a walk in the rain...

However over used this line maybe still its the single greatest promise one can make'We will stay together forever '...

Go out of your way...then again you will make her feel most special when you go down on one knee

Nothing says be mine more than a ring...

Still the most important question a guy will ever ask and the greatest words a girl will ever hear are "Will you marry me?"

If you want to do away with cliche`s you will have to do away with love story...

Live a love story live it the cliche` style...

They are cliche` not because they are old and overused...They are overused because the are more perfect than their alternatives...what say?? ;)

To all those who are 20 already...

20-26 is not that nice an age as we had imagined..Although ,you have the official permission to drink. Your frnds are getting married, your career has just started. Elders treat you as unproven theorems, people think you are always wrong even when you are right, You are too old for college but too young to be taken seriously. You seem to enjoy both cartoons and news. You can no longer eat whatever you wish without being conscious about putting on weight. Every aunty you meet asks 'Shaadi kab kar rahe ho beta' while uncle asks 'Aage ka kya socha hai beta'. You have all the confidence in the world but little achievements. You know that whatever you have been taught about the world in schools has been a sheer waste of time. You know now love is not that blind and that friendship sometimes has its terms & conditions. And you now realize that this age and part of life is not exactly what we thought it would be...! :-/