Closure...

This is for those who keep running back to the same person when you know you deserve better.When is it a necessity to depend on someone else for happiness? Why do you need the feel of a significant other to remind you that you’re loved? You are. Realize the good people that are in your life.

You keep complaining that he isn’t treating you right but you keep running back to him. You know you’re not happy when you’re crying constantly, arguing about how he is seeing someone else or just doesn’t want to be with you but you’re just taking it. There’s a certain quality about him that you just keep grasping on too. Along with that grasp is also a string of hope that he will change after all the complaining. But really is that one characteristic worth grasping on to compared to all those flaws? You are used to that certain “hurt” but you let the hurt continue because you’re not used to the idea of being “single”, “free”, “independent”. You’re afraid because your whole life, you’ve always been dependent. In reality we are settling for less when we know we deserve better.

We have to face the demons of being ‘alone’ in the face because it helps us grow. How can we love someone else, when we can’t even love ourselves? We have to sacrifice that intimacy/passionate part of our lives. In time someone will walk in your direction unexpectedly. It’ll hit you out of no where. But you can’t have just anyone walk into your life, you need someone that can treat you like the Queen that you are, because you deserve it. They’ll realize the mistake they made letting you go later in the future when YOU’RE finally happy with someone who loves you.

So, stop settling for less. You’re worth more then that.