He is a Playboy...

I often listen this phrase from girls who are in love with a guy who is a bit of Casanova..and the girl keep wondering if she should take the risk of being with him or not.?? Trust me girls, behind 90% of so called "playboys" there is often a broken heart, a lost love, incomplete desires and shattered dreams..

When a guy gets heartbroken, unlike a girl who cries with her teddy, boys tend to make them self mightier and devilish, they brace walls around their heart..b'cause believe it or not, boys do have a sensitive heart which is afraid of being played with..afraid of loving again..

If you fall for a playboy, care for him, love him with everything you have and moreover don't expect anything in return b'cause love is unconditional..believe me girls, if your love is real it will get through the walls he has enclosed himself within, and he will love you back with much more intensity..but you would have to risk it b'cause in the process of finding real "HIM" you might lose real "YOU"..you will endure many sufferings, you will get hurt but at the end it will be worth it.. b'cause its love at its purest and most spiritual form.."reduction of whole world in a single person and expansion of a single person to even god"that's "DEDICATION" that's "LOVE"...

Sometimes it's better to be alone...

Sometimes it's better to be alone than being with someone who makes you feel alone. Someone who doesn't return your love, someone who doesn't appreciate your effort, someone who takes you for granted, someone who sees no value in your care, someone who doesn't love you for who you are, someone who doesn't spare time for you, someone who always makes you cry, someone who always accuses you for being wrong...

If you are in a relationship with such a person, think of letting go no matter how painful it may be. Such people only care about their heart desires but they never mind of how you feel, what you need and what makes you happy...

Be strong and move on, that person was not meant to be the love of your life trust me. He or she is a time waster in your life; He or she will never change. That person’s happiness is when you fulfill what he or she wants but for them they will never mind about your heart pain. Think about it....

What a woman wants...

Some guys don't know how much those small things can make a girl happy. Many of the fellow guys out there think that buying expensive things, taking a girl to expensive hotels, buying her posh cars…are the ones that count a lot. But that is totally wrong. Small deeds mean a lot and they are memorable. If you don't have a big wallet, don't stress a lot. Don’t borrow a loan from a bank just because you want to show her that you are loaded; don’t borrow money from your friends and even clothes just because you want to be classic and stylish to her. JUST BE YOURSELF. 

Compliment her when she is smart; tell her that you like her new hair style, and talk about her smile... Don't over tell her that she is beautiful because sometimes ladies get used to it and it becomes boring and common. Use it once in a while, find other lines and say them in the right time. Surprise her with small gifts they will mean a lot to her, if you got no credit to call, just text her a good morning or a goodnight message it will imply that you think of her all the time, give her your time, listen to her when she is talking (be a good listener), Do some work or exercises with, if she is going for jogging go together. If it's a weekend and she is gonna be busy with the domestic work, do it together. If she is busy washing clothes make breakfast… Go for evening walks together, hold hands, have fun and always keep her smiling. These are small things but many men fail to fulfill them. They claim they have no time yet they had time to corn her and to take her on dates at the start. If you have done something wrong, accept it, don't be a coward or shy away. Just swallow your ego and say SORRY to her. As me  what I am sure of if she really loves you she will forgive you and she will shower you with her love and care. 

All in all if you really love your girl/wife give her much of your time, respect her and be faithful. God willing you will be the happiest man with her and your relationship will last forever... You may take these things for granted but that’s what a woman wants. She can be with a man who gives her everything, money… but if he doesn't give her freedom and much of his time all that mean nothing to her. That is why you see some ladies dumping guys of class, loaded with money and end up loving the poor guys because they know how to love. Think about it most especially YOU and put it in practice.

The worst regret...

The worst regret we have in life is not the wrong things we did, but for the thousands of the right things we did for the wrong people who ended up with breaking our delicate hearts. 

Friends, be slow in trusting someone. Some people come in our lives to pass time, to explore our bodies and hearts. People are not only after love, they have different missions, just that they blind us with some sweet care accompanied with a fake common word "I love you" to soft our hearts. When their mission is done, they change; they start to get so busy for us. They give us many excuses; they limit the calls, the texts, love and care hence breaking our hearts. And such people are determined, they can stick around with us even for a year and more before getting what they want. They can pretend, they can give us fake promises and some temporary care until they fulfill their goal.

Be CAREFUL. Not everyone who tells you that He/she LOVES YOU means it. Don't rush to give in your heart, take your time, Value your HEART and BODY.

Crossroads..which side are you in?

There are moments in our lives when we find ourselves at a crossroads. Afraid. Confused. Without a roadmap. The choices we make in those moments can define the rest of our days. Of course, when faced with the unknown, most of us prefer to turn around and go back. But once in a while people push on to something better. Something found just beyond the fear of going it alone. And just beyond the bravery and courage it takes to let someone in. Or to give someone a second chance. Something beyond the quiet persistence of a dream. Because it’s only when you’re tested, that you truly discover who you are. And it’s only when you’re tested, that you discover who you can be. The person you want to be does exist. Somewhere on the otherside of hard work, faith and belief … and beyond the fear of what lies ahead.